Dick Size: When It Matters and When It Doesn't

Penis Size: The Truth About What Women Want

I would have to say that working in the adult industry for over five years has taught me a thing or two about what people, most specifically women, want in terms of penis size and here it is folks: There is no standard size that a woman wants. Every woman's body is different and the ability of one's shlong to please is directly proportional to not one damn thing. I have seen women buy 12 inch dildos as thick as a Coke can without batting an eye and I've seen women buy a 4 inch, pencil thin dildo wondering if it was going to be too big. Guys seriously, be less concerned with your size and more about (1) having a winning personality, (2) attentiveness in the sack (3) and just trying not be an all around douche. You accomplish these things and penis size is the last thing on anyone's mind, yours or your girlfriend's.

Now for some more truth, as much as you might like, love, or are utterly infatuated with a person and find compatibility on dozens of fronts; if someone has a large opening and another has a small penetrative member, problems will likely ensue. There are dildos, penis extenders, hollow dildo strap-on's, exercises and pumps that do give a little size increase, positions and positional aids available to help with that problem. So guys and girls you have options!

The real issue is folks being open and honest enough with each other to do what is necessary to get their sexual needs met. She might be wondering if something is wrong with her, you're feeling inadequate and meanwhile great sex is not being had. No one wins in this scenario. Be open to trying the various aids available and also be open to the fact that sometimes sexual incompatibility is enough to end a promising relationship. But particularly if things are new, speak about your concerns early on (but not on the first date, that'd just be creepy). No need wasting each others time, if you all can go your separate ways with your dignity and confidence in tact. For if those things are not in tact, your chances of a happy follow-up relationship are nill. Truth.

But on the whole, penis size should be the least of anyone's worries (unless you're less than 5 inches which admittedly is a brutal and ironic existence), primarily because there are so many other components to a happy coupling. Do you all really like each other, or is this just convenience? Are you familiar with each others bodies? Have you discussed fantasies? Do you all have emotional intimacy and not just physical? Does everything about them just want to make you jump their bones and vice versa? Passion is a great compliment and sometimes even an effective replacement for what might be lacking in other areas. What makes for great sex isn't just attractiveness and body parts, your mind is heavily involved too. Don't belittle your partner's complexities and myriad reasons for getting into bed with you for personal insecurities that can be mitigated, either by thought or action.