Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, But Men are Gay

I am going to write something really inflammatory; your average fellow is very gay, but not in the way you think. We've, pretty much since the classical era, have thought of gayness, specifically man-on-man love as a sexual thing. THIS WOULD BE INCORRECT. Men are not into being sexually gratified by each other, save for the men who are born that way, express an interest in it, or explore the life style and decide its for them. These men should not, do not, and will not threaten other men, unless you're insecure in your truth. Man gayness and male sexual gayness are not the same. Where men, who happen to identify as straight are gay is this: there is an almost cult-ish obsession, all over the world for having a male child. Men are soooooooooooooooooooo obsessed with making more themselves (males), its what the male populace displays the most interest in, hence being very gay fellas. Now historically you can use the explanations of needing males to have strong centers to households, which has been true. But save for selective breeding, we're born about 49% female, 48% male, 3% trans strictly in a biological sense, so there are more than enough of you fellas to go around, ya know what I'm saying?

This is obsessive gayness for more of your own kind is so you can bromance (not the 'feminized' metro-sexual kind that scares the hell out of many straight men), but the kind where men can simply and innocently be around other men as a preference because they believe women can not understand them (which is erroneous) and because they need a break from time to time from feminine energy, ie. women. And then there is male sexual gayness. The two are not the same. And neither are an abomination. But the non-sexual gayness is a bigger problem because in some countries and regions around the globe, there are literally not enough women for the sexually identified straight males (I'm looking at you China).

The issue and this is really more an american western and middle eastern (be expansive in geographical thinking), than other sections of the globe (not that other male cultures are without fault too) because men who identify as straight and emphatically are not comfortable with their masculinity and femininity can not admit this personal truth to themselves. And side note you need balance in expression of self, there can be no 100% male and 100% female from a behavioral standpoint, so we end up with excessive macho behavior, homosexual men bashing, and constantly claiming “no homo” when you compliment each other. That is ridiculous, silly, you're making the biggest fools out of yourselves and neglecting your women if you're in a relationship and particularly if its lopsided in how much time you spend together as a couple, rather than as a group, or with the boys.

Women in case you all didn't know are repositories of empathy, the ability to put one's self in another's shoes. And we do this well. If you believe your woman can't understand you, try it, not only will she surprise you. You will surprise yourself with being able to understand her as a woman too. Then real mutual respect can arise and we can dispense with this, 'no homo' quip I hear so often. Be comfortable in your masculinity guys, because when you are, women are then completely in our own skin, owning our femininity and our strength and we will amaze you.