Sex Toys Basic Part 1

Sex toys or adult pleasure toys are really awesome. There are all manner of sex toys out there folks, from the ubiquitous dildo to a tenga egg (don't know what it is, here it is). Point is, so many sex toys abound because people, humans have VERY VARIED sexual tastes. What one person loves another hates. When picking out sex toys what's really important is going into it with a sense of adventure and open to the possibilities. Some of those possibilities will end in ecstasy and others will in abject failure too 😊. But fear not, one of the other important things in picking out a sex toy is getting familiar with your body, your turn on's, your turn offs, and your fantasies. When you're familiar with your preferences you end up with a lot purchasing success. So jump into your sex life with moderate abandon (not reckless though, folks could get hurt!

Dildos: What to say about dongs, dildos, faux shwongs, etc. A lot actually....first they have been around since 10,000 BC They come in a variety of colors shapes and sizes from as little as 4 inches to as long as 20+ inches and with girth ranging from and inch to 4 or more. They can be flesh colored or green or blue or pink or any other color of the rainbow. They can be very squishy like children's play doe and as firm as a plastic cup. They come in a variety of materials including plastic (pvc, tpr, tpe) silicone, and even glass and metal. What makes the right one for you will depend on material/texture preference, where/how you're using it (vaginal, anal, or as a club in bdsm (trust me its happened), and how much you like lube (more is better if you're interested in a large dong and a vigorous session and absolutely if you're doing anal.) Since there are sooo many options be open to trying a variety. I recommend going for the best case scenario, you pick up a fairly inexpensive toy to try out. You like it, get more like it with better materials and a stronger construction. You hate, chuck it, figure out exactly what you did and didn't like and then find a toy with and without those specifications.

Rabbits: So since 1996, rabbits have been popular and for one simple reason, its not easy for the average woman to achieve orgasm. It takes time, no small amount of mental and physical arousal, and the right type of stimulation. Rabbits give internal (gspot if you've found yours) and clitoral stimulation. And what do you know, Wholly smokes women love them. It raises your chances significantly of achieving orgasm and it being a powerful one at that. They can come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Most mimic the average males size and girth (5.5-7 inches in length and about an inch to an inch and half of diameter in girth). But they can be larger or much smaller, depending on whether you need more size or if you're particularly tight and need something less obtrusive internally. But if you're going for smaller, remember that you will also lose intensity of vibration as well.

Bullets: Bullets are basically small vibrators (although if you want to know the difference between gyration and drive shaft mechanics click here to learn more). They are generally less powerful than a standard vibrator, but where they lose strength they make up for it in localized vibrational intensity, meaning it's small, but powerful in one particular spot. If you mostly prefer clitoral stimulation, bullets are for you. Smaller target area, the smaller the utensil used. You wouldn't use a body wand to stimulate an area the size of pea would you? They also come in a variety of colors, shapes, and materials. The most popular being the silver bullet. They come hard (like a marble) or soft with a sleeve like putty ball. They can come with controls on the bullet or a cord connected to the remote control or wirelessly. You'll know what kind you want depending on your goals. Wireless is better for couple play. Wired is better for masturbatory sessions because you're generally just staying in one position. (Work on wording here)

Prostate toys are basically anal toys, but designed with certain curvatures to specifically hit the p-spot in men (the equivalent of a woman's g-spot, but not necessarily located in the same area. Men can have amazing orgasms with the aid of a prostate toy. Indeed some men can only orgasm with anal stimulation. They, like other sex toys, are made with various types of plastics and silicone, glass or metal. And since they're anal toys make sure to always use lubrication, since unlike a females sex organ, the anus does not produce its own lubrication, and too much friction is always a bad thing (Indian rope burn anyone) And for all those curious, anal stimulation for a man has little to do with sexual identification and gender preference. What you like sexually isn't always related to who you're attracted to. So if your husband or boyfriend likes anal stimulation, don't freak out (not unless you see these other signs

Anal Ahhh, Anal toys: People have had problems with folks liking anal anything since time immemorial, and yet we humans love some anal play. And with good reason, much like men who like prostate stimulation, some women can only orgasm through anal stimulation (although this is fairly rare). As such we've been putting stuff up our butts for millennium and we've gotten exceptionally good at offerings to scratch that particular itch. These toys can be made from just about anything (if you're getting creative, like wood or stone), but mainly come in plastic, silicone, glass, or metal. And there are so many types from the standard butt plug and beads to the triple threat (anal, vaginal, and clitoral stimulation), to cock rings that have an anal cord, so you get one of the strongest orgasms of your life. Truly, anal toys and anal play, is where human sexuality shines. They of course come in a variety of sizes as well. From toys that are as thin as a pencil to toys that are thicker than a lumber jacks forearm! Always start small and with plenty of lubrication and work your way up. The anal muscles can be trained, but it takes patience and time if you're looking to move up to the big leagues. But again everyone's body is different. Some people just can't relax (even with the right techniques) some people have such strange constitutions that anal play always leaves them nauseous. So definitely pay attention to your body. Anal play can be tons of fun, but its not for everyone and that's okay.

Vibrators: Vibrators have been around since the 1800's and......my god, how do I describe the almost infinite variety of vibrators; rabbits, g spot stimulators, lipstick vibes (for discretion), vibrating dildos (complete with veins and weird hooks to the left if that's your thing), oral sex simulators, ommm vibration (patterns of vibration that mimic yoga frequencies), and so many more. The standard vibe is a hardplastic 6 inch toy that takes AA batteries (and which will frequently be called a "personal massager" in non-adult stores) and to date is still the most popular. But there are plenty of others. This is the most hit or miss proposition in getting toys you like. You may want a high, medium, or low intensity vibration. You may want a hard plastic toy or you may want a softer, jelly like toy. You may be allergic to the materials and need to go for silicone. Sooooo if you're looking for a good vibrator, be patient and open to trying lots of different kinds. You may be lucky enough to find the perfect toy on your first try or you may go threw a few before you find the right one. And pro tip: if you find one you love, get a couple to have on hand. Toy manufactures are notorious for ending a particular line and then you're on the hunt for the next great orgasm inducer.

And on to Part 2!!!!